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Many women have shared how men who initially spoke of “serious relationships” and even marriage suddenly stopped communicating after the women refused to engage in WhatsApp sex.…..For More READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE ▶▶
Thank you for reading this post, don't forget to subscribe!These days, any relationship that has a good chance of survival must break free from the comfort zone of WhatsApp. Outside of WhatsApp, most modern relationships barely exist.
I recently introduced two people to each other for a relationship, but it quickly became a case of “one day, one complaint” from the man.
He complained that the woman would go for days without answering his calls or replying to messages.
When I ran into the woman during an evening walk, I asked her about her behaviour. It turned out she wasn’t even aware of his ‘communication’ efforts.
Apparently, he had been communicating solely through, while she had been off the app for some days.
If I were a woman seeking a committed relationship, I wouldn’t take a man seriously if he only communicated via WhatsApp.
A serious relationship shouldn’t rely solely on WhatsApp for interaction. I struggle to understand how a man seeking a serious relationship could limit his communication to WhatsApp.
Have you noticed the sad reality of many relationships today? I call it the ‘comfort-zone syndrome’!
It’s not about saving costs, but rather the lack of personal touch and the over-reliance on convenience in matters of the heart.
How can anyone complain about a potential partner’s “un-seriousness” if they haven’t even bothered to make a regular phone call?
WhatsApp doesn’t inform you when the person you’re calling is busy, nor does it indicate when their phone number is unreachable.
I remember asking a friend some months back how his relationship with a woman he’d just met was going. He told me it had ended like all the others before it. The interesting thing is that all those relationships started and ended on WhatsApp.
It must have been so troubling that his secretary advised him to “leave WhatsApp relationships alone.” So, he made an effort to communicate beyond WhatsApp, a key factor in his future relationship choices. Luckily for him, the next relationship worked out.
In my view, proximity isn’t the main reason relationships succeed. It’s the effort of those involved, especially when they’re deliberate and sincere about what works for them.
Many people who claim to be searching for love are rather delusional. I believe the starting point of a serious relationship is not to make WhatsApp the hub of the relationship, with zero interaction outside of it.
It’s not by monitoring their WhatsApp status that you’ll know how sincere they are. Emotional availability isn’t about how often someone calls or messages you on WhatsApp.
As you read this, someone somewhere is planning to marry someone based solely on their WhatsApp interactions.
Seeing someone’s WhatsApp message first thing in the morning doesn’t mean you’re that important to them—it could just be a forwarded message they’ve ‘copied and pasted’ to you.
Many Nigerians are so mentally lazy that even the birthday messages they send are Googled. We seem to have lost our way when it comes to making tangible efforts in matters of the heart.
Have you noticed how quickly the spark fades in promising relationships when the interaction is limited to WhatsApp?
Religious fellowships are now conducted via WhatsApp, yet the essence of fellowship is that warm physical interaction that nourishes emotions.
I’ll be the first to admit how easy technology has made our lives, but it’s not supposed to replace personal touch in relationships.
The unhappiness, shallowness, and vanity plaguing human emotions these days are due to people no longer going out of their way to add a personal touch to their relationships.
I’m just afraid that things will remain this way until we all call ourselves to a meeting of sincerity.
It’s a sad reality that outside the comfort zone of WhatsApp, many relationships are standing on nothing.
WhatsApp is enabling nonchalance, lack of commitment, and emotional and physical unavailability in relationships.
It’s disturbing to contemplate how much emotional investment people are making in those they barely know beyond WhatsApp.
It’s akin to being involved with someone whose name you know, but not where they come from!…..For More READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE ▶▶
