Despite the critical role male condoms play in preventing unplanned pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections, many married women in Nigeria refrain from purchasing them for their husbands. This reluctance is primarily rooted in fears of being accused of infidelity or promiscuity.…..For More READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE ▶▶
Thank you for reading this post, don't forget to subscribe!Research conducted by PUNCH Healthwise reveals that cultural and religious beliefs significantly limit women’s control over their sexual and reproductive health. Married women often face societal judgment when attempting to engage in family planning. While they may comfortably buy other personal items for their spouses, such as clothing or fragrances, the purchase of condoms is fraught with anxiety and stigma.
Dr. Salma Anas-Kolo, Special Adviser to the President on Health, emphasized the importance of family planning, stating, “Family planning is more than a health service; it is a critical component of maternal and child health.” Despite the Federal Government recognizing that family planning can reduce maternal mortality by up to 30%, many women still lack awareness of their reproductive rights and face significant obstacles in managing their fertility.
Interviews with several women illustrate the pervasive stigma associated with buying condoms. Mrs. Tola Adeyemi, a 32-year-old mother of two, remarked, “I can’t buy a condom for my husband. He will accuse me of infidelity if I should try it.” Similarly, 35-year-old businesswoman Ogunyemi expressed her fear that her husband might perceive her as controlling, stating, “I am afraid my husband will suspect that I’m trying to control him or that I don’t trust him.”
The social pressure is palpable; another woman, Mrs. Johnson, recounted a negative experience, saying, “I bought condoms once, and my husband was offended. He said I was accusing him of cheating.” This fear of undermining their partners’ authority further complicates discussions around condom use.
Healthcare professionals also recognize the challenge. At the Ibafo Primary Health Centre, health provider Akintunde noted that while condoms are available for women, they are seldom requested. “We do provide condoms to women, but mostly to men. Women rarely ask for them,” he observed.
Dr. Joseph Akinde, a prominent obstetrician and gynaecologist, stressed the importance of condom use in reproductive health. He stated, “Condoms are a proven and effective method of contraception with minimal side effects. Unfortunately, women in conservative societies like ours often face stigma when purchasing male condoms, being perceived as promiscuous.”
Dr. Akinde highlighted the benefits of female condoms, which empower women by allowing them to take control of their reproductive health without needing their partner’s consent. “Knowledgeable husbands must understand and support their wives’ decision to use condoms,” he advised. He emphasized that discussing reproductive health openly is crucial for improving health outcomes and reducing the stigma surrounding contraception.
As Nigeria’s population continues to grow, addressing the cultural barriers to family planning is essential. The reluctance of women to purchase condoms not only impacts their health but also highlights a broader need for education and dialogue surrounding reproductive rights. As Dr. Akinde stated, “We must put aside hypocrisy and prioritize our reproductive rights. Men and women deserve to enjoy their sexual reproductive health to the maximum.”…..For More READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE ▶▶
